My Self-help and Stories

  SELF-HELP: How can you change your fate?   Are you fed up with your life? Have you ever desired having a life different from yours? Seems like it is the problem with almost everyone. Let me tell you one thing. Your fate is already decided. You cannot do anything about it- or, can you? Let’s suppose that your life is a book. It has chapters and pages in it. Words are imprinted that tell your life story. The problem here is that you are just not satisfied with some events in your story, and want to change it (except for some) according to your tastes. Can you do that? Is it possible? Well… it might as well be. Let’s first understand the term below. WHAT IS AFFABILITY? Affability is a great quality of possessing good manners   and a forever sweet nature . Many a times we have heard people whine about how they have been mistreated when they themselves behaved very well. They often say things like, “I was very ice to them, and then why they weren’t nice to me?” Tha...

  Self-help: How to evaluate someone Are you having difficulty in judging people around you? If yes, then you have come to the right place. Many people out there are unable to understand people with whom they interact in their daily life. Naturally, some people are people-readers or mind-readers. You may know a person in your life who righty guesses about people’s personality after a short time of meeting them. Then, there are those so called unlucky people who fail to judge others properly, and sometimes even suffer the consequences. I just came across some important tips that were helpful in evaluating others and wanted to share it with you lot.   TIP #1 “If you want to check someone’s morale, give him respect.” Morale is the confidence, discipline and enthusiasm of a person. You can check the level of a person’s morale when you give him respect. If a person is lacking in his morale, then he will obviously hurt his near and dear ones.   And, if his morale is...

  Self-help: How to Brand yourself. You have been invited to live in this world just once. Definitely, you won’t get another chance. And your time is short as well. So, obviously you will want to live in the best possible way, won’t you? And let me tell you, it IS essential to be unique. If you are just like the others, then of course you are no different. And you have to be different to be a brand. So, I am going to give you lot some ideas on how to make yourself a brand- how to be unique? Being unique is not a rock science. Everyone is born human- no one is born a genius or exceptional by default. Get that. Good. Being unique means to make yourself stand out in the crowd. Giving others a good reason for remembering you. Making yourself an inspiration for others to follow. In short- branding yourself means to give yourself a label for your identification. The word ‘brand’ is made up of five letters - B- R- A- N- D   HOW-TO: Here are the tips to Brand yourself ...

  Self-help-How to be creative? Can anyone be creative? Let me tell you… Exactly, everyone can be creative. Creativity depends on how well your brain performs. Indeed, everyone has their own way of thinking. God has given everyone some sort of talent or potential. Firstly, let’s understand what creativity is? “Creativity is such a piece of work or an idea that has never existed before.” So, it a brand new concept. A novel idea.                                                                                             ...

  Difference between rich and poor people What makes rich people, rich and poor people, poor. The answer lies in their habits. Just by adopting the habits of any one of the two categories, you eventually become one of them. In this article, I am going to tell you about the things that poor people always do and the rich don’t. So, what are the habits of poor people that are responsible for their poverty? Why do the rich people become richer and the poor, poorer? Obviously, it’s all because of their habits.   1)     WATCHING EXCESSIVE T-V It has been found out that poor people (even the lower and upper middle class) spend too much time In front of the television. So they waste their precious time and energy watching consecutive shows for hours instead of utilizing it on something constructive. This bad habit is an obstacle in their progress. Although they do this just for entertainment and getting relief from their worries yet this is a temporary enjoyment. It ...

  Stay less worried. People encounter worry in their life. Everyone is caught under its net. They regret the past, worry about the present and the future as well. But worrying is natural, isn’t it? No one wants to be worried, yet it comes to everyone so easily! So, the question arises: Is worrying good? And if not then how can we get rid of it?   LITTLE WORRY IS POSITIVE A little stress is a good thing. It can be helpful as it gets you to complete your important tasks. If you are a student, worrying about your homework and exams will earn you good grades because you’ll study WHAT ABOUT TOO MUCH WORRY? Now this is not good. Constantly overthinking things will lead to anxiety, and if it exceeds its limit- would cause depression and health disorders. ANXIETY AND HEALTH PROBLEMS Over-anxious people are depressed. Doctors say that “Diseases of our stomach are related to depression.” In fact 70% of diseases are related to the state of being worried. Worry weakens...