My Self-help and Stories

  Whirlpool   The circular movement of water or wind caused by the encounter of two opposing currents is called a whirlpool. It is a powerful force from which escape is difficult. Symbolically, they represent the difficulties and sufferings of life. Just like the whirlpools in large water bodies (i.e., oceans) forcefully drag down everything caught in them, the whirlpools of life are unsafe for humans and lead to their ruination. In life, the people caught in it have the following habits. In other words, certain habits or way of thinking leads one to get stuck in the unfortunate vortex.   1.    They believe in luck. These people account for all the happenings to chance. Never accepting their faults, they blame their fate for all the mishaps they go through. If they failed to prove themselves in any circumstance or didn’t get what they wanted, the fact that they didn’t work hard would be the last thing on their minds. Such people are too dumb, lazy or arrogant to put in sinc

  A saying goes that a slight difference exists between being pretty, sexy, and beautiful. Pretty is when your face looks good, sexy is when your body is appealing and beautiful is all about the person. It encompasses your inner character as well as your outer personality. Out of these three, we can judge that being ‘ beautiful ’ is the most valuable compliment. Personality  What is personality then? Let’s see what it means. The Latin word  persona   is the root from which the word personality is derived. Persona is a mask or veil used to hide a person’s identity and it was used by actors in the olden days to display particular roles. This brings us to the fact that a person's personality can be fake as well as genuine. Every single being undergoes the process of growth and development. What kind of personality a child will own as an adult depends entirely on the development and training he received in his early years. According, he might be well-groomed or a hypocrite. T

  Red Signal A red signal denotes an obstacle. A hurdle. Danger. Wherever you see a red signal, it means something is not right. So, to avoid disastrous consequences you stop right on the spot to think again. What is a red signal?  Everyone has encountered red signals on the road. Here I’m talking about the red signals of life. Life has many red signals. Sometimes they are situations that upset you. At other times, red signals may take the form of people that bring you down.  But the question is are these two main sources of red signal? Not really. There is one great big red signal. That red signal is YOU. In this complex world where everyone seems to have become tangled with depression or suicidal thoughts, the person itself is their biggest red signal. How To Tackle Red signals? You need to know that you cannot always control your surroundings. you can only control what goes inside- your thoughts and emotions. And this is called responsibil

  Introduction Oscar Wilde once wrote:  “Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes.” Mistakes are inevitable. It will happen no matter what. Not only today people make mistakes but since mankind came to earth, blunders happened. Humans are prone to them. In every aspect of life, every field of study there is a record of numerous accidents done by people and not without consequences. Historical blunders had consequences. In Greek mythology, the destruction of the city of Troy was the disastrous result of the elopement of princess Helen with Paris. In Philosophy, Aristotle’s idea of bodies moving towards their natural place was a mistake. Karl Marx’s prediction of the impending collapse of capitalism was no short of a mistake, and so was Sigmund Freud’s speculation on death instinct. To cut a long story short, many great people in history whether they be philosophers, thinkers or commanders who have done mankind's incredible services had even committed blunders.

  For the fans of Cristiano Ronaldo out there. The kind of personality on display is evident. What has made him that way? Let’s peep inside for the details. “Nothing in this life is easy. If it was, we wouldn’t have been born crying.” The most incredible thing about Ronaldo is his winning attitude.   “I always consider myself a winner. Things may not be easy, but that’s OK. You need to be a competitive person, no matter what happens in your life.” Winning in this life only comes with overcoming obstacles. Knowing one’s worth and having faith in one’s abilities is the key to success. Higher expectations lead to great rewards. A strong mindset throughout the ups and downs of life will ultimately take you where you need to be. Secondly, an important aspect of a hustler’s personality is competitiveness. “It doesn’t matter who your opponents are, because you should be getting better and better.”   A competent person strives for the best. He becomes extraordinary. He stands out