self-help: Magnetic Personality

                                                         Magnetic Personality

Develop a personality that would be irresistible to others. What to find out how? Just follow these guidelines:

Sleep one hour earlier than you normally do- this will make you active and fresh the next day. So, if you normally sleep at midnight, then go to bed an hour earlier i.e. 11 p.m.



Maintain your hairstyle- I just love this one. And it is important to choose a hairstyle that suits you. A good hairstyle boosts your confidence and makes you instantly likeable.



Drink more fluids- Keep your body hydrated and lose some weight if you have you. It makes you feel light and positive. Drink plenty of water even in winters. Also, consume fruits and vegetables as they are 60-80% water.

Exercise at least 7 minutes daily- Its benefits on physical and mental health are numerous. Do take some time out for it. 



Avoid processed and packaged foods- they are unhealthy and lack nutrition. They will badly affect your health. Avoid consuming them in excess. They cause many health problems like obesity.

Keep your mobile phone 6 feet away when you sleep- Radiations from cell phones damage brain cells and cause sleeplessness. Mobile phones will never let you sleep on time.

Learn more about human psychology- now this is something unique but it is an awesome trip. Understanding human psychology will help you know and predict more about others. You will be able to make a very good guess regarding people’s feelings and thoughts and act accordingly. Be curious about what others want.

Don’t talk/act negative- negative talks grab attention but not attraction. People will avoid you if you’re a negative talker. Similarly, don’t brag, show off or belittle others. Also, don’t use blocking or defensive posture.

Don’t react without listening completely- Understand what the other person is saying, then give your opinion. Don’t cut another person communication and start your own.



Do not share your family or personal problems with anyone- It gives a negative impression about yourself.

Be authentic- be genuine and the best version of yourself. Treat others the way you want yourself to be treated.

Be up-to-date- keep an open mind. Accept the fact that others are better than you will be so. This way you’ll grow. Also, be knowledgeable. Have interesting things to tell others. People do like the boring and clumsy.

Set your boundaries- Lastly, don’t let anyone be very close to you. You have your own standard. Don’t lower it for people’s company. but always talk gently.

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