My Mechanism behind Staying Happy

 

My Mechanism behind Staying Happy




I this troublesome world, we are behind many things such as fame, money, love etc... And of of them is to be happy.

But the question is how can we be happy?

Well there are many answers to this question. Many solutions, but unfortunately, none of them seems to be effective in combating against our frustration. Now, you’ll definitely be seeing such tips and tricks of the staying happy websites.

Smile. You’ll look beautiful

Exercise. It keeps you healthy.

Meditate. It’s good for your soul.

Get plenty of sleep. You’ll be fresh in the morning

Be grateful.

Give a Compliment. People like it.

Breathe deeply. You’ll be energized.

Connect with others.

Hmmmmmm... Well yes. They do work. But not quite. I myself have tried all these things. Read them over a thousand times, but I did not actually learn to be happy until I understood THIS HIDDEN PART.

Our happiness is a Give-and-Take relation. Now, being a student of Chemistry let me tell you that ‘THIS’ is not one of the staying happy tips. This is my mechanism of staying happy.

“DO NOT GIVE THE KEY OF YOUR HAPPINESS IN SOMEOE ELSE’S HAND.”

You have the right to be happy just like you have the right to live.  To understand my mechanism, consider that your happiness is a beautiful diamond key. So, certainly it’s precious. You don’t even want to ruin it let alone lose it. This key is your responsibility. “Keep it somewhere safe.” A wise elderly advice for you.

If you place this in someone else’s hand who doesn’t know how to look after things, then you give your control of happiness to that person. That makes him the owner of your happiness key. The he will use it I his own way that will probably be different from yours. No matter how good you are but when you don’t get what you want, you’ll simply be hurt!

“DON’T GIVE THE CONTROL OF YOUR HAPPINESS TO OTHERS.”

Keep your happiness to yourself. Do those things that make you happy. Give priority to yourself. Upgrade yourself. When you are happy with yourself, the whole world will be happy with you.

Final word. Do not expect others to make you happy. Because mostly they can’t. And that does not mean you can’t stay happy.

TASK#

Make a vow to yourself. No such mentality:-‘I’ll only be happy if someone else does something to make me happy. I am enough for myself.”

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