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The education system of any country is a reflection of its existing political system. The institution of education is closely related to the state. The type of education being imparted depends on the nature of the government or political party because each brings to the forefront its own agenda which it plans to implement. For instance, a government revolving around a single person i.e. dictator or a monarch will implement a particular education system to suit his needs. The motto of his education system will be ‘self-sacrifice, discipline and duty. The ultimate aim of his education system will be to strengthen his own position and elevate his status. Educational institutions will be a mere tool in the hands of such a government. The curriculum will be designed to suit his needs. Teachers, themselves will be dictated by their authorities. Textbooks will be redesigned accordingly. Attempts would be made to crush initiative, criticism and creativity. In short, everything will serve h

 Man is Gods’ highest creation. He has been made superior to animals on account of his intelligence. Hence, his life is sophisticated comprising of various needs. The primary needs of man are three- food, clothing and shelter. However, with the advancement of civilization, these needs have increased to include health, entertainment and education as well. With the progress in civilization, man has progressed as well. He was able to do so because of his ambitions and aspirations to succeed. All this progress has happened due to education. Education has made it possible to enable man to live in the modern scientific era. But, what exactly is education? Many philosophes have pondered over its meaning. They did even come up with all sorts of definitions to suit their own understanding. Literally, the word education has come from a Latin word,’educare’ or ‘educere’ which means ‘to bring forth’ or ‘to bring out.’ “Education is not only the gaining of knowledge and information but also n

  Get Smart Getting smart is about thinking and acting intelligently. This is a very common word- intelligence. We hear it all the time. A topper is perceived as intelligent. An artist who has shown his talents is intelligent. A knowledgeable person is intelligent. Similarly, a trickster is also perceived as intelligent. But what exactly does it mean? Intelligence, according to me, is a ‘way of acting.’ It is such an act that makes you move closer to your goal. It’s a way of thinking or behaving in such a way that makes you succeed. So, when you are intelligent, you act smartly. A smart person stands out among the crowd. He is prominent because he thinks and gets better results. The Chemistry behind thinking and getting better results. So, you want to follow in the footsteps of smart people- want to learn how they think. Read about the long-term and short-term perspectives. The ultimate goal is the consequence. The only measure for your quality of thinking is the RESULTS you

                                                        The Thinking Mind  “Successful people have the habit of doing things that the failed don’t like to do. Not because they like it, but because they have a purpose.” Count to ten before you respond. The very act of stopping to think improves the quality of ultimate response. It is a quality of wealthy people. Reason Our immediate response (without thinking) is habitual and habits may be detrimental to our success. So it is important to take a pause before deciding. This space should be filled by thinking- pondering over the circumstances, reasons and consequences. This is called good thinking. Good thinking must be learned and practiced. It is called hard work. Good thinking is further divided into slow thinking and fast thinking. Both are necessary. Both have their right times. Slow thinking is when you take time to think things through. Fast thinking is when you take a decision quickly because you haven’t thought much abo

                                                   Think a n d Grow Rich The takeaway of this book is that your life is yours to make. You are the master of your own fate, the captain of your own soul because you have the power to control your own thoughts. The ether in which the earth floats adapts itself to the nature of thoughts we have in our mi n d a n d transform them into physical reality. But… the scary thing is that this universal power makes no discrimination between constructive thoughts and destructive thoughts. Our brains become magnetized by the kinds of dominating thoughts and these magnets attract us to like people, things and circumstances. Before we actually accumulate riches in abundance, we must magnetize our minds with an intense desire for riches. We must become money conscious first. Steps towards Riches 1)       Starting point of all achievement- DESIRE You need to have the thoughts of a king. You should be able to visualize what you want. In your mind

                                                          Magnetic Personality Develop a personality that would be irresistible to others. What to find out how? Just follow these guidelines: Sleep one hour earlier than you normally do- this will make you active and fresh the next day. So, if you normally sleep at midnight, then go to bed an hour earlier i.e. 11 p.m. Maintain your hairstyle- I just love this one. A nd it is important to choose a hairstyle that suits you. A good hairstyle boosts your confidence and makes you instantly likeable. Drink more fluids - Keep your body hydrated and lose some weight if you have you. It makes you feel light and positive. Drink plenty of water even in winters. Also, consume fruits and vegetables as they are 60-80% water. Exercise at least 7 minutes daily- Its benefits on physical and mental health are numerous. Do take some time out for it.  Avoid processed and packaged foods- they are unhealthy and lack nutrition. They will badly aff

                                                             The 5 Second Rule Hey friends. Want to know what this is? Well, read along. The mind-blowing tip to bring an immense change in your life. You might be wondering why I mostly talk about life. That’s because I’m into fixing mine and maybe some of you out there are looking for the same. Ok, so ready, steady- GO. Whenever your instincts tell you what you should do, then 5-4-3-2-1 and DO IT! Otherwise, your brain will stop you… Quite a meaningful thing, isn’t it? Using this 5-second rule, you can bring major and minor changes to your life. Start by applying this to get up early in the morning. You can also use this rule to Change a behaviour Avoid procrastination In relationships, careers, workdays In everyday acts of courage Now that you know what to do, let me explain to you how this works? Whenever you tend to do something to reach a goal- may it be a task or a habit, your brain stops you from doing it. Why do

  Psychological tricks to make people like you Hey guys. Do you think you aren’t liked much? No problem because I’m here to share some tips that will help you be more likeable. Match and Mirror This means building rapport. Rapport is power. It’s total responsiveness towards people- a connection. When you interact with others you get to know them on a deeper level. This develops trust that improves your impression. To engage in a conversation. What type of conversation? “Any” is the answer. How? Rapport is created by a feeling of commonality. That we do share some things In common. When people get into rapport, they start mirroring each other. Their gestures will depict the same words and feelings. Their moods will match. “People like people who are like themselves or how they would like to be. People don’t like people who are not like them or not like how they would like to be.”   Express positive energy You are matter in motion. Think of yourselves in terms of energy. Yo